On May 11th we posted the wicked letter from "Pastor Screwtape" and his associate, Wormwood, that was sent to an abuse victim in their "church." You can read the letter here. Now I want to dissect this collection of lies and perversions of scripture so that we can all clearly…
Read MoreThis is another excellent comment left in response to the post on this subject last week. Amy tells her story and her insights are right on. I wanted to be sure everyone sees what she wrote, so here it is in this stand alone post. Thank you Amy! Read More
Read MoreLast Wednesday I wrote a post on how men's and women's church ministries very often promote abuse in the church. In response, Wingingit made a wonderfully accurate comment that really says what I was trying to say, only better. So here is her comment in a stand alone post to…
Read MoreRite (Mack's wife) sent the following good news update this morning. Please continue to pray for Mack and Rite. He still has a long way to go: Dr McCord update: - This morning they checked his labs and Mack’s kidneys are functioning on their own❣️❣️ Dr McCord said it is…
Read MoreI would like to ask all of you to pray for my friends Mack and his wife Rite (pronounced "Reet"). Mack has been an elder in our church here for many years. Both he and Rite were here when I came 27 years ago and they have faithfully stood with…
Read MoreWe have just published another new book, Light for Dark Times: An Arsenal of Truth to Expose Domestic Abuse. It is a compilation of 96 blog posts from Unholy Charade put into book form and you can order it now on Amazon. [I inserted the front cover image here and…
Read MoreGalatians 3:28 ESV There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. I have had a sticky note on my desk to write about this subject for a few weeks now, so I…
Read MoreAs you know, most of the domestic abuse victims we hear from are women. Abusers are most often men. But not always. We have dealt with cases in which the woman was clearly the abuser, and in some ways it is even more difficult for men to understand what is…
Read MorePsalms 21:7-8 For the king trusts in the LORD, and through the steadfast love of the Most High he shall not be moved. Your hand will find out all your enemies; your right hand will find out those who hate you. One of the very common tactics of abusers is…
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