Unmasking the Domestic Abuser in the Church

Category: forgiveness

Vengeance is an Ugly Thing – Unless the Lord is Wielding it

Rom 12:19 Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” There is a reason that we are prohibited as individuals from taking revenge on someone. We are not to do so even in…

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Does Time Heal all Wrongs?

That happened a long time ago. You can't keep holding it against me. Have you ever heard that line? It actually is pretty commonly used by RASNs (revilers, abusers, sociopaths, narcissists). Especially if they claim to be Christians. They will throw in a twisted Bible verse or two to back…

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The Old, Old Story – RASN’s Claim to have “Changed”

2Pe 2:22 What the true proverb says has happened to them: “The dog returns to its own vomit, and the sow, after washing herself, returns to wallow in the mire.” As most of you know, I always tell abuse victims these two things: 1)Abusers never change, and 2) A marriage…

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When the RASN Demands that you Forgive

Dr. Les Carter posted this excellent video dealing with this issue - should you forgive a narcissist (abuser) when they tell you that you need to forgive them. Here is the link - You Must Forgive Me

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Another Look at Seventy times Seven

Mat 18:21-22 Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” (22) Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times. Many of you know that these…

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