Unholy Charade - Jeff Crippen

Unmasking the Domestic Abuser in the Church

RASNs Dig up the Past (and twist it)

“Their throat is an open grave; they use their tongues to deceive.” “The venom of asps is under their lips.” “Their mouth is full of curses and bitterness.” (Rom 3:13-14) Narcissistic abusers and their kind (RASNs) dig up the past. And they will do so entirely out of context. By…

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Dr. Phil is Right on – This is a must listen

I don't follow Dr. Phil, but I came across this talk he gave on the narcissistic personality. I listened to it and before I finished I knew I needed to share it. We watched it last Sunday in the morning class and I sent the link to our people who…

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The Abuser is Malignantly Jealous of Your Successes

Pro 27:4 Wrath is cruel, anger is overwhelming, but who can stand before jealousy? The sin of jealousy is, as the verse above says, particularly destructive. Now, God Himself, we know, is a jealous God. That is, He is jealous for His own glory - idolatry moves Him to a…

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Vengeance is an Ugly Thing – Unless the Lord is Wielding it

Rom 12:19 Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” There is a reason that we are prohibited as individuals from taking revenge on someone. We are not to do so even in…

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We Grow Accustomed to the Abnormal and Think it is Normal

Gal 4:8 Formerly, when you did not know God, you were enslaved to those that by nature are not gods. When we were still dead in our sins, when we did not know God, we were enslaved. We were blind to our condition. Satan had us in bondage leading us…

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The Abuser is an Immature, Selfish Child

One of the first words a child learns is...."mine!" That we are all born into this world in a fallen, sinful condition is evident. You do not need to teach your children to sin - they know how by nature. Mine!! And the battle is on if he doesn't get…

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The “Right Now” in the Moment Thinking of the Abuser

I recently heard Dr. Les Carter (find him on Youtube) mention this "right now" mentality of the narcissist and I wanted to call it to your attention. This is a very, very typical characteristic of the RASN (reviler, abuser, sociopath, narcissist) and it is one reason the Bible calls wicked…

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God Hands the Abuser Over to Evil – And it is Right to Escape

Saul looked at David with suspicion from that day on. Now it came about on the next day that an evil spirit from God came mightily upon Saul, and he raved in the midst of the house, while David was playing the harp with his hand, as usual; and a…

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King Saul – a Classic Toxic Person

As they were coming home, when David returned from striking down the Philistine, the women came out of all the cities of Israel, singing and dancing, to meet King Saul, with tambourines, with songs of joy, and with musical instruments. And the women sang to one another as they celebrated,…

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Does Time Heal all Wrongs?

That happened a long time ago. You can't keep holding it against me. Have you ever heard that line? It actually is pretty commonly used by RASNs (revilers, abusers, sociopaths, narcissists). Especially if they claim to be Christians. They will throw in a twisted Bible verse or two to back…

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