But the Pharisees went out and conspired against him, how to destroy him. (Mat 12:14)

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.
(Joh 10:10)

The devil is a destroyer. He doesn’t create things, he destroys them. He doesn’t give people life, he gives them death. He hates God’s creation. He is a murderer, and all of his children share in his evil traits.

RASNs (revilers, abusers, sociopaths, narcissists) are children of the devil. He destroys, and they destroy. He lies, and they lie. They are indeed, as Jesus told them, of their father the devil.

RASNs do not cultivate life. They don’t build others up. They love only themselves and they are driven by the desire to tear down and destroy. They destroy their spouse, their children, and really anything that is good. If the wife of a RASN, for example, excels at her job and receives recognition for it, her RASN spouse must set out to tear it all down. To congratulate, to give encouragement and praise, these are all foreign things to such a person. Because RASNs demand that THEY receive the recognition – even though they don’t deserve it.

People who are married to a RASN are married to a destroyer. Whatever they build, the RASN must destroy. And so it is just as the Apostle Paul put it:

DESTRUCTION AND MISERY ARE IN THEIR PATHS,
(Rom 3:16)