Unmasking the Domestic Abuser in the Church

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RASNs are Never Wrong – Even if They sink the Boat

If we say that we have not sinned, we make Him a liar and His word is not in us. (1Jn 1:10) RASNs (revilers, abusers, sociopaths, narcissists) are not Christians. How do we know? Because they never confess their sin. They are never wrong. Never. Just ask them. And therefore,…

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Faulty Doctrine in the Church Enables Evil

I am writing these things to you, hoping to come to you before long; but in case I am delayed, I write so that you will know how one ought to conduct himself in the household of God, which is the church of the living God, the pillar and support…

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Domestic Abuse Victims are All Around Us

Woe to those who enact evil statutes And to those who constantly record unjust decisions, So as to deprive the needy of justice And rob the poor of My people of their rights, So that widows may be their spoil And that they may plunder the orphans. (Isaiah 10:1-2) I…

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Churches Welcome New Members and Appoint Elders Without any Background Check

1Ti 5:22 Do not lay hands upon anyone too hastily and thereby share responsibility for the sins of others; keep yourself free from sin. We all know, anyone knows (unless they are completely lacking in discernment) that evil people, counterfeit Christians, narcissists looking for self-glory, and other such types very…

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The Good Ol’ Boys (and girls) Club Silences the Case of Abuse Victims

Gal 2:11-14 But when Cephas came to Antioch, I opposed him to his face, because he stood condemned. (12) For prior to the coming of certain men from James, he used to eat with the Gentiles; but when they came, he began to withdraw and hold himself aloof, fearing the…

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Why Does it Take so Long to Realize What a RASN is?

Rev 2:19-20 'I know your deeds, and your love and faith and service and perseverance, and that your deeds of late are greater than at first. (20) 'But I have this against you, that you tolerate the woman Jezebel, who calls herself a prophetess, and she teaches and leads My…

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Abigail Acted in Self-Defense

Now there was a man in Maon whose business was in Carmel; and the man was very rich, and he had three thousand sheep and a thousand goats. And it came about while he was shearing his sheep in Carmel (now the man's name was Nabal, and his wife's name…

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Truth-Tellers in a Toxic Family

Gal 4:16 So have I become your enemy by telling you the truth? I was listening to an online podcast focusing on narcissism recently. The subject was about the experience of the one person in a toxic family who sees the truth and speaks it. There are two routes facing…

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The Ending Reveals the Beginning

Where a relationship ends up reveals what it was from the beginning Often we can find ourselves going down that memory lane, thinking that things were so great back then. For anyone in a relationship with a RASN (reviler, abuser, sociopath, narcissist) and especially for a person married to a…

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RASNs are Like Their Father the Devil

John 8:44  You are of your father the devil, and your will is to do your father's desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks out of his own character, for…

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