Unmasking the Domestic Abuser in the Church

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False Guilt and Fear – Two Wicked Friends

1Jn 4:18 There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love. In some ways I would recommend to you that this subject is one of the top 10 - no, top…

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False Forgiveness as Accusation

1Jn 1:9 If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. The Lord's forgiveness is always genuine. It is applied to the truly repentant sinner. When we sin, as the Apostle John says here, and we genuinely…

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The Key to a Clear Conscience

If we neglect the truth of justification (by faith alone in Christ alone), we lose everything. Therefore, it is most necessary that we teach and repeat this above everything else. We cannot have justification urged upon us too often or too much. Even if we learn it and understand it…

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Why do we Pretend?

1Sa 2:22-23 Now Eli was very old; and he heard all that his sons were doing to all Israel, and how they lay with the women who served at the doorway of the tent of meeting. (23) He said to them, "Why do you do such things, the evil things…

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When Abnormal becomes Normal

Pro 4:19 The way of the wicked is like deep darkness; they do not know over what they stumble. Sin has a blinding aspect to it. Its way is called "darkness" in the Bible. Sinners are blind to God's truth. They are comfortable in the darkness, away from the light…

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Humility Does not mean no Self-confidence

Num 16:8-11 And Moses said to Korah, “Hear now, you sons of Levi: (9) is it too small a thing for you that the God of Israel has separated you from the congregation of Israel, to bring you near to himself, to do service in the tabernacle of the LORD…

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Sharing the Load

Gal 6:2 Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. One characteristic of the love of Christ is its willingness to help the weak carry their burden. Christ took our burden of sin upon Himself and He welcomes His people to come to them and do this:…

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Walking on Eggshells – Becoming an Ally

1Co 15:33 Do not be deceived: "Bad company corrupts good morals." When we are in association with a RASN (reviler, abuser, sociopath, narcissist), we spend our days, as the saying goes, "walking on eggshells." Stepping ever so carefully in every word we say, every action we take - lest the…

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No Wonder the Lord Calls the Wicked ‘Fools’

Heb 12:1-2 Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, (2) looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our…

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Two Demonic Skills RASN’s Possess

3Jn 1:9-10 I have written something to the church, but Diotrephes, who likes to put himself first, does not acknowledge our authority. (10) So if I come, I will bring up what he is doing, talking wicked nonsense against us. And not content with that, he refuses to welcome the…

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