This video (only about 15 minutes long) REALLY helped me because it so accurately describes exactly what I have had to deal with numbers of times over the years. When you are enabled to connect the dots by hearing someone else describe what a RASN did to you, it is very validating, clarifying, and freeing.
Here is the link: The Non-Thinking Thinking of the Narcissist
Up And Out
Oy……this describes my hopefully soon to be ex to a T. Literally Every. Single. Discussion.
BTW, I really like Dr. Les Carter and listen often to his content. I love that you are so balanced and realistic of the world we live in and mingle so well the spiritual with the psychological. I believe it is indeed the wise mind…..the Mind of Christ. We absolutely have to understand/discern human behavior to survive in this world….because we are not of it.