I cannot tell you how many times I have been caused misery by the narcissist Dr. Les Carter is describing here in this 15 minute clip. Be sure that you listen to it. This is how evil typically disguises itself among us and I have particularly found it to be so within churches. These kind will do all they can to use you and to ultimately destroy you if they can.
This is the Link – 8 Ways Narcissists Perpetuate Their Own Woundedness
NOTE: Don’t let the term “woundedness” lead you to pity the narcissist. That would be a mistake.